In early cultures, the female elder was considered a wise woman. She was the healer, the teacher, the imparter of knowledge. She mediated disputes, she had influence over tribal leaders, and she cared for the dying as they took their final breaths. women are reclaiming the name of Crone in a positive way, and see it as a time to joyfully welcome one's position as an elder within the community.
- A ritual bath or cleansing beforehand
- Singing and chanting
- A guided meditation honoring the archetype of Wise Woman
- Symbols of initiation-- a staff, a special cloak, a garland or crown
- Drumming, music or poetry celebrating womanhood
- An altar with photos of female relatives and friends who have empowered you
- A celebratory meal
- A symbol of the passage into Cronehood -- entering through a curtain or tunnel, crossing a ceremonial threshold
- An exchange of gifts or blessings (a Croning basket filled with chocolates and herbal teas is popular)
Crossing the threshold into Cronehood can be a major event in a woman's life. It's a celebration of all that you've learned, and all that you will come to know in the future. For many women, it's a time to make new commitments and vows. If you've ever had an interest in taking a leadership position in some aspect of your life, now is a great time to do so. This third cycle of your life is the one in which you become an Elder, and you've joined a special group. You have a lifetime of achievements behind you, and decades more to look forward to. The word Crone should now be a word of power for you, so celebrate it. You've earned it.